Some bad news

Some bad news


Hi guys, I just got back from Cincinnati. Uh, from that sudden trip that I told you guys about, the day before I left. So, if I look a little frazzled it’s because I’ve had, like, six hours of sleep in the past 48 hours. Um…first off, just thank you guys so much for all the birthday wishes yesterday. Uh…thank you for helping me celebrate the big 3-0. Thank you for 24 million subscribers,like, that came out of nowhere too. Umm… but I wanted to talk about why I was in Cincinnati yesterday. Yesterday was Tyler’s mom’s memorial service. If you don’t know Tyler, Tyler’s the guy who’s been helping me make videos. He’s been in Markiplier makes, like, this is Tyler. Tyler’s mom, Cindy, passed away about a month ago. And the service was just yesterday. That’s why I flew in, ‘Cuz I promised him I would be there and of course I’d be there. So, I’m telling you this now and not before because I… I just, I didn’t want anyone to show up to the memorial service, out of the blue. Like, uh… I just didn’t want that to happen. Umm… you know, because I wanted to give, like, the family the most space possible and like be as supportive as I can. From a distance, but you know, Tyler, he’s- he’s a friend of mine. So I have a favor to ask of you guys, if you are willing to help out. Um… if you can send him some love. Send him some support. Send him and his entire family some support. I hate to say it, but I did not even know Cindy that well. Like I knew her, and I’ve known her for a long time, but I never really got to know her, and it’s- It’s terrible that at her memorial is when I learned so much about her and what an amazing person she was. I’ve actually told this story before, Uh… but I’ve left out a crucial detail. I- I’ve talked about the first time I had surgery, I got my tumor removed. It was a very painful recovery process because they got my medication wrong. Basically, from the time I had the surgery until the next morning, I was in incredible pain because they got my pain medication wrong. The only reason that got fixed is because Tyler’s mom works in the pharmacy at the hospital that I was at. She wasn’t there when I was first admitted, so she comes in on her morning shift or, whenever it was, and she knows that I’m there. She had no reason to really know who I was or like, really care all that much, but that’s just the type of person that she was. She came in and she checked up on me. She checked my file and she saw immediately that there was a problem. (inhale) So she fixed it. Like, the only reason that I had my pain finally managed is because she went out of her way to help someone that she only knew because I was a friend of her son’s. (Pause) And that’s just the kind of person that she was. And it was- and it was like, that story is nothing compared to the stories that people were telling about her. So, please send Tyler all the love in the world that you can. Send his family stuff I’ll provide links to his Twitter in the description below. um… just send messages of good will because I know there’s nothing that, like, you and I could say (Another inhale) to make it better, but… you know. I know… (Pause) I-I don’t want to ma- I-I don’t want to make this about me in any way shape or form because it is not about me. But I know what it’s like to lose a parent. (Pause and inhale) And it’s never easy. What I want is to… (Pause) … have as much support there for him as possible. (Lip smack) If you can send him a message, send him some love, send him anything, just- You don’t have to. There’s no obligation to do this, but if you want to reach out, do. I think it would make the world a difference. (Inhale) There’s unfortunately, um… I hate to pile on bad news one on top of the other, but I was back in Cincinnati talking to my stepmom. And uh… You know, she told me about her nephew Jay, who I’d only met three, four times in my entire life. I never really knew him, but he was part of my stepmom’s family and I care about my stepmom very much. So… She told me that Jay, was killed. Um… He was shot. He works in security, aand, you know He was shot. There is a- a GoFundMe set up because Jay was a single dad of three kids. Basically what’s gonna happen with the money, is the money is gonna go into a trust. It’s gonna pay for those kids’ education. There’s no obligation to help, but I made a promise that I would let you guys know. If you want, there’s a link in the description that goes to the GoFundMe. Please give if you can, There’s no obligation. I wish that I had, like, a- good ending for this video. A happy ending or- or something like that, but I don’t. Sometimes life just really sucks, (Inhale) And, the only thing that we can do, even if it’s a stranger reaching out to someone that they have never known, is show your support. Send some love. Send some good will and try to make someone’s day just a little bit brighter. So if you can, please do, and thank you so much. I will get back into making videos obviously. I don’t want anyone to make this about me in any way shape or form. Do not go “Oh, I feel so bad for Mark.” This has nothing to do with me. I mean, it’s my friend and it’s my family, but this is not about me. This is about the people that are hurting. This is about the family that was torn apart. This is about Tyler, (Inhale) my friend who is in pain right now, pain that I know very well. And he could use some love right now and my stepmoms family could use a lot of love right now. So please send whatever you can. I will get back into the swing of things as soon as I get a little sleep. And thank you everybody so much for watching. And I’ll see you in the next one. Bye.

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    NATHAN PACHECO

    Give me Tyler’s instagram I will give him all support cause I freaking love Tyler and he reminds me of me my uncle and dad who I love very much I would go out of my way to FaceTime call text whatever I can everyday to make sure he’s ok 👌❤️❤️

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    NATHAN PACHECO

    Who ever disliked this video screw them uve got us to go support Tyler and jay we have love for them and may them be able to Rest In Peace ❤️❤️❤️😇😇 it May seem two body’s have fallen but it’s just two angels got their wings and found the way to peace

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    apple LJ

    We’ll live and forget, regret and move on, fall and rise again. We may be scarred by tragedies that befall us, but may we carry them on with us and live with these burdens that are feelings and remember the great lives that history and time will forget. We will carry on the memory of them so that they may live on in our minds. Time may destroy even the greatest of people, yet it will never destroy those we keep to our minds, our souls, our hearts. All of us may lose our existence to time, yet let the moment of our existence mean something and remember those who shaped.

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    Breadgoat X

    To all the people complaining about the dislikes, did you stop the think that the dislikes might be people that dislike that Tyler's mom passed? Essentially using it as a "sad" react? I personally chose not to like or dislike this video because I don't "like" it due to the nature of what happened, but I won't dislike it because I know that screws with the algorithm, but come on, seriously, the amount of dislikes leads me to believe that people are using it essentially as a "sad" react. Calm down, take a step back, and think about for a second.

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    The Female thunderbirds nerd

    First of all: Congrats on hitting 30, you don’t look it!
    Secondly: If you’re friend Tyler is reading this, Mark, I am really sorry for your mum passing away and I hope that you can get this virtual hug from me.

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    No Tanks

    I have had many people leave my life. Tyler, if you are reading this, I can relate to your pain. Because of people leaving me, I sometimes refuse to sleep and went into deep depression and anxiety, leaving me, a former outrovert and a party animal, an introvert who is just really lonely. I wish you and your family well Tyler.

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    Madison Vlogs And More

    I’m still a kid so I don’t have a Twitter account and I can’t do go fund me, but I would if I could and I will send Tyler love here

    Tyler, I’m really sorry for your loss and I hope she is in a better place. I will pray for her every night before I go to sleep. Plz stay strong Tyler 🙏🏻

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    Cat Lady

    My thoughts are to your friend's family and your family Markoplier. I just found out two days ago that my little brother is failing his fight with cancer and possibly is at his last stretch and he's not even 21 years old yet. Loss is never welcomed nor easy but all my sincere heartfelt prayers will be to those going through this unimaginable loss right now. Big hugs to them all.

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    Sam

    Rest in peace
    May they both go and rest in the place they believed they would go.
    Whether that be Heaven, or elsewhere.

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    R Robertson

    Sorry I'm late, I just want to take this moment to express my deepest sympathies to Tyler and his family, as well as to Mark and his. I know the pain is enormous and can feel too much to bear. Remember you are not alone, and remember that you are loved. I wish you all strength and peace.

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    Lethal Scopezz

    Rest in Peace Cindy she seems like a lovley person and I hope Jay had a wonderful life I will pray for his children

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    LADYLUCK7804

    I'm so sorry for Tyler and his family! I too, have lost my Mother and its devastating! On a more upbeat note I am playing outlast 1 and 2 and you made me sincerely laugh throughout all of them!!! I love how much you make me laugh!!!!!

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    tw _fan

    It's kind of weird to hear someone say making sure your patient is fine and healthy and gets the right medications is going out of your way. Where I'm from this is normal and expected from a doctor, nurse or any other medical staff member of the hospital

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    YukarixAsukai

    How are you 30 and i am sorry for the life that was lost she sounds like a beautiful kind person i was late to this and im sorry for your loss

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    WillTheOreMiner

    So sad. You did all that you could, Mark. You did good. And Tyler? I hope you are ok. Things are going to get better. Jay's family, i wish you all the best of luck. I personally can't do anything to support any of you in any meaningful way, but if I could, i would support all of you to the highest degree.

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    Skyler G

    My pops Death Anniversary is Coming up and it's been rough. I'm depressed ☹️☹️☹️. I had a single mother. I wanted to know my father but the time I got around to know him he died because he was on drugs and he had a heart attach. To be honest I didn't really know my pop's.

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    Chris Gusky

    Oh no tell Tyler I'm sorry to hear about his mom and I'm sorry about Jay and I wish I could give some money for his kids but I can't.

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    Eleumei Emerald

    I'm 18 about to be 19 and I lost my mother before the age of 7. She was not even 25 yet. She was a hell of a woman. Big heart and soul. Mind yurning for Christ. And the fact that I didn't get to say goodbye.

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    Callie leighton

    Thats respect to give you time and not saying anything you have a life and people need to respect that you are sure a great friend and being there for him

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    Jean King

    I don't know if this makes it more wholesome or not but in the older videos, way older videos Mark always yells: " NURSE!!!! " and now we knows (don't know if Mark has ever mentioned it before) who he was referring to. Now we will always have something to remember her by fondly. To Tyler and to his family, my sincere condolences. P.S. I am too lazy to check for gramatical errors, sorry.

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    Ꮓ ᏆhᎬ ᏁᎥᎶhᏆmᎪᏒᎬ

    Why the hell the people dislikes this!? This is a grave situation and god damnit these people are insensitive 7-7

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    Polari Zinc

    Condolence about the loss of Tyler's mom and Jay. Rest in peace I hope they are in the happy place right now. Sorry for the loss I wish Tyler is okay right now. Send love to Tyler ❤️❤️.

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    NekoNekoMe

    Idk if it's just me…but I feel like a lot of pple been dying a lot everyday…rip their souls and hope they find happiness in the afterlife

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    Vitae 121413

    I know now it’s pretty late but I would like to say something and well I don’t have social media so it’ll be this way:

    Mark your right,
    Life does suck, but we were chosen to live it and we decide what happens in it.
    And of course, there are things that we can’t control, that are out of our hands and those are the most painful things on life, we can’t get the opportunity to change all of that to make it… better.

    And I can’t even feel half of what that type of situations feel like and I feel grateful for that, but I’ve imagined it, many times and I regret the feeling very much. I felt like I couldn’t breath, I wanted to speak, I wanted to scream I wanted to tell the to come back to wait for me to be with them but i couldn’t t and in the end I always ended crying in silence just hoping that they’ll be back, that they’ll remember me and my family.

    But crying won’t change things just think she is on a better place now and be sure about it because all what she did just by helping others and educating her child a man who became such a lovely Pearson. I’m sure she was proud of you, I’m sure she loved him as much as you loved her or even more and she wouldn’t had wanted you to be in such pain because of her, she is still among you as long as you carry her memory with you, as long as you remember she loved you, everything will be fine at some point

    I’m not sure how it feel or how to bring you a better support but Tyler or mark or whoever finds this if you ever get to see this message let me just remind you this Life sucks and Think how better could it be after it

    Let’s just keep living and let this situation get to us .

    They wouldn’t had wanted that .

    Im sorry for your loss, hope you get better soon.

    Both of you

    And his children too

    (And sorry if there was a misspelled word or bad punctuation I’m not a really good writer :/)

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    RRebel 993

    I am so sorry, am I too late? Either way, Tyler I feel bad for your loss. I know you may feel sad for what happened, but for you to remember that we are here. The people that love you will always be there to help you and we will try to make you feel more better. I hope that you feel more better later on.

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    Jenny F

    Who the f*ck are the 8.3k that have disliked this?! Heartless idiots…..so sorry to hear this news, my sympathy goes to everyone close to Cindy and Jay :'(

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